Golf Expectations
Everybody is looking for information on how to play golf. People of all kinds, men, women and kids, young and old are searching for the answers. They search online, they scour the bookstores. They’re looking for the answers, anywhere they can find them. Whenever somebody starts a new hobby or sport, there can be a good deal of nervousness and anxiety involved. It is the unfamiliarity of the situation that creates these feelings.
So, you think you want to get involved with this game of golf? I know what’s going through your mind. How in the heck does this game work? Is this the right sport for me? Maybe it’s going to be too difficult. Can I really play this game? And what happens if I’m not good enough?
To help you out a little, consider these facts–
1. Probably the hardest sport to learn is golf. How can that be, you ask? All you have to do is hit the ball a few times until it goes into a little hole, right?. But be aware that there is so much more to this game. You may find that the “simple” act of making proper contact with the ball can take months to learn.
2. To do well at golf, you must have patience. If the lack of patience is an issue for you, you’re probably going to have trouble with this game. Golf just may not be the game for you. It is possible, over time, to learn the patience and focus that you need when playing golf. However, there are way too many beginner golfers who get frustrated because they take their mistakes too seriously. What often happens then, is they end up quitting.
3. A huge amount of your time is required for golf. Any level of skill that you develop will not happen overnight. You’ll need to make hundreds or thousands of “bad” shots on your road to becoming a good and experienced player.
Golf is by no means the easiest sport to learn. However, there’s no other sport that can offer what golf can–the ability to enjoy playing as you get older.
If you think about it, you’ve probably stopped playing most other sports you’ve been involved with. Most of us stopped playing baseball, football, soccer, etc shortly after leaving high school or college. There are lots of reasons for doing this but usually it comes down to the fact that these other sports are just too strenuous for us to keep playing.
Golf, however, is what could be called a “physically passive” game. Can you think of many other sports where you can play with both your child and your grandfather?
This is a humbling sport–it is definitely not a macho game. Something to always keep in mind, is that you will never beat the course–it’s not meant to be “won”. Sure, you can win a competition between your friends or golfing partners. But keep in mind, when it comes right down to it, golf is a personal game. It’s a game where you try to make fewer mistakes every time you play.
There is no room on the course for brute force and aggressiveness. As you play, you’ll learn humility. And you’ll increase you ability to concentrate. These are certainly two important components of the game of golf.
Before I started playing golf, it made no sense to me why a lot of my friends would waste so much of their time smacking a little white ball around, trying to get it into a hole. How boring could that be? But once some of my friends convinced me to give the game a try, my outlook changed completely. Now, golf has become a lifelong interest. And it probably can do the same for you.
As far as what to expect from golf, you’ll find that you will enjoy your failures, as well as your victories. You know you’re going to brag to your buddies about that great shot you made over the water, or how you blew the ball out of the sand onto the green, right up next to the pin.
You’ll find that you can’t wait to get back out on the course, weekend after weekend. You won’t be able to wait to experience that exhilaration of playing just a little better than the last time. The mistakes you made during your last round will occupy your mind and you’ll look forward with anticipation to getting back out on the course as soon as possible to try and do better.
If you approach the game with patience and concentration, you can expect to enjoy it for the rest of your life, anywhere you travel, for as long as you can walk.















